Questions to ask your boyfriend

1. What's a snack combination you love that everyone else finds disgusting?
2. If you were a kitchen appliance, which one would you be and why?
3. What's the worst haircut you've ever had, and who's to blame?
4. Which of your friends would be the worst at keeping a secret about me?
5. What did you think your job would be when you were eight?
6. If you could rename yourself, what name would you pick?
7. What's the weirdest food you've tried and actually liked?
8. Which song do you secretly know every word to?
9. If you had to fight one animal to save my life, which one would you pick?
10. What's the most embarrassing thing you've googled this week?
11. Who would play you in a film about your life, and who would play me?
12. What's a hill you'd die on that nobody else cares about?
13. If you were a ghost, who would you haunt first?
14. What's the worst haircut you've ever had, and is there photo evidence?
15. Which fictional character do you think you'd be best friends with?
16. If you had to get a tattoo of the last thing you ate, what would it be?
17. What's the most you thing you've ever bought?
18. How long would you survive in a zombie film, honestly?
19. What would your wrestling entrance song be?
20. Which emoji describes me best, and which one describes you?

1. What was the first thing you noticed about me?
2. When did you first want to kiss me?
3. What's something I do that drives you crazy in a good way?
4. Which of my outfits is your favourite?
5. What's the smallest thing I do that you find weirdly attractive?
6. Did you plan our first kiss, or did it just happen?
7. What's the best compliment you've ever had, and can I top it?
8. If you could relive one evening with me, which one would it be?
9. Do you have a nickname for me in your head that you've never said out loud?
10. Which song makes you think of me?
11. What's the most attractive thing about me that has nothing to do with looks?
12. When do you think I look my best?
13. Did you tell your friends about me after our first date? What did you say?
14. Which of my texts have you read more than once?
15. What small thing did I do early on that made you fall for me?
16. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done for someone?
17. How would you describe my laugh to a stranger?
18. Do you remember what I was wearing the day we met?
19. What would your perfect lazy Sunday with me look like?
20. What's your favourite way for me to say good morning?

1. What's something you're proud of that you rarely talk about?
2. When did you last feel really scared, and what happened?
3. Which person shaped who you are the most?
4. What do you wish someone had told you when you were sixteen?
5. Is there a moment from your childhood you still think about a lot?
6. What's a belief you used to hold that you've changed your mind on?
7. How do you know when you need help, and do you ask for it?
8. What's a fear you've grown out of, and how did it happen?
9. Is there anything you've never forgiven yourself for?
10. What does a good life look like to you, if nobody else was judging?
11. When do you feel the most alone?
12. What's a fear you've never said out loud?
13. Which friendship ending hurt you the most?
14. What did your parents get right, and what would you do differently?
15. What's the hardest thing you've ever had to tell someone?
16. If you could talk to your younger self for one minute, what would you say?
17. What do people misunderstand about you the most?
18. When do you feel the most confident?
19. What would you want people to say about you at your 80th birthday?
20. What's something you're still trying to figure out about yourself?

1. When did you know you loved me?
2. What's your favourite memory of us so far?
3. What's one thing I do that makes you feel loved?
4. How do you like to be looked after when you've had a bad day?
5. Is there anything you'd like more of from me?
6. What's something we're really good at as a couple?
7. Which argument do you think we handled best, and why?
8. What's a small habit of mine you'd miss if it disappeared?
9. Do you feel like you can tell me anything? What makes it easier or harder?
10. What did you learn about love from watching your parents?
11. How do you show love, and do you think I notice it?
12. What's one thing about me you'd like to understand better?
13. When do you feel closest to me?
14. When were you most proud of me?
15. What made you want a second date?
16. What do you think we disagree about most, and why?
17. Which couple do you look up to, and what do they get right?
18. What's something you've never thanked me for but want to?
19. How has being with me changed you?
20. What does being there for someone mean to you?

1. What's a tradition you want us to start this year?
2. What's one place you want us to travel to together?
3. City, small town or the middle of nowhere?
4. Do you want kids one day, and how do you picture that?
5. What does your dream home look like, room by room?
6. What's one thing you want to have done before you turn 40?
7. How would you feel about getting a pet together?
8. What would you do with your life if money didn't matter?
9. Could you ever see us living abroad?
10. What does a normal Tuesday evening look like for us in ten years?
11. What's a tradition you'd like us to start?
12. How important is marriage to you?
13. What's a career dream you haven't given up on?
14. Holidays: your family, mine, or just the two of us?
15. What should we save up for first?
16. What do you want us to be like when we're old?
17. What's one skill you'd like us to learn together?
18. How should our home feel when friends come over?
19. Which of my goals can I count on you for?
20. What's something about the future that makes you nervous?

1. Would you rather have date night at home in pyjamas or dressed up at the fanciest restaurant in town?
2. Would you rather read my mind for a day or have me read yours?
3. Would you rather go on a road trip with no plan or a holiday planned to the minute?
4. Would you rather I cook for you, or we cook together and make a mess?
5. Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead and see us in ten years?
6. Would you rather let me pick all your clothes for a month or all your food?
7. Would you rather meet my family for the first time again or have me meet yours again?
8. Would you rather only speak in song lyrics or only in questions for a whole day?
9. Would you rather get a handwritten letter or a surprise trip?
10. Would you rather be famous together or rich and unknown together?
11. Would you rather live in a tiny flat in the city or a big house far from everything?
12. Would you rather have a date night every week or one big trip every year?
13. Would you rather I sing to you in public or drag you onto the dance floor?
14. Would you rather know about every ex I've had or never hear about them again?
15. Would you rather lose your phone for a week or watch only my favourite shows for a month?

For adult couples who both want a spicy round. Either of you can pass on any question, no explanation needed.

1. What's a fantasy date night you've never told me about?
2. Which outfit of mine should I wear more often, and why?
3. What's the most daring place you'd want to kiss me?
4. When was the last time I made you blush?
5. What's one thing you'd like me to whisper to you?
6. Have you ever had a dream about me you'd be too shy to tell me?
7. What's the most attractive thing I've done without realising it?
8. Is there a song that instantly puts you in the mood?
9. What's your favourite way to be kissed?
10. Is there something you've wanted to try together but never asked?
11. Slow build up or a total surprise?
12. Which of my texts would you never want your mum to read?
13. What's the boldest thing you've ever done to get someone's attention?
14. On a scale from cosy to wild, how should our next weekend away be?
15. What's one thing I could do tonight that would make your week?