Truth or dare questions for couples

Truth or dare questions for couples work best when they are about the two of you: your first kiss, your worst gift, the outfit one of you secretly loves. Here are 75 truths and 75 dares for couples in four themes, sweet, funny, flirty and spicy 18+ and long distance, all different from the cards on our main Truth or Dare page.

Sweet truths150 cards

What was the exact moment you knew you liked me as more than a friend?

Every theme has a truth group and a dare group. Switch on only the truths or only the dares to let the player choose: tap a truth chip off for a dare turn and the other way round.

Pick the themes on the card, then take turns: say truth or dare, draw, and answer or do it. Either of you can pass a card at any time, no questions asked.

Cards
75 truths, 75 dares
Players
2
Works
At home, over text, on a call

75 truths and 75 dares for couples

Sweet is a warm start for any couple. Funny keeps it light. Flirty and spicy is for adult couples who both want it, and stays suggestive rather than explicit. Long distance is written for playing over text, the phone or FaceTime.

Sweet truth questions for couples

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  1. What was the exact moment you knew you liked me as more than a friend?
  2. What's a text from me you've reread more than once?
  3. What is a small thing I do that makes your day better?
  4. What is your favorite memory of us so far?
  5. When did you first want to say I love you, and how long did you wait?
  6. What is something you never told me because it felt too cheesy?
  7. What smell reminds you of me?
  8. What is one thing about me you would never change?
  9. What did you tell your best friend about me after our first date?
  10. What is a habit of mine you secretly find adorable?
  11. What's a habit of mine you've secretly picked up?
  12. What is one thing you want us to do together before the end of the year?
  13. What was going through your head during our first kiss?
  14. When were you really proud of me?
  15. If you could relive one day with me, which would it be?
  16. What do you miss most about me when we are apart?
  17. What is one way I have changed you for the better?
  18. What did I do early on that made you think "this one is different"?
  19. What is the nicest thing anyone has said about us as a couple?

Sweet dares for couples

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  1. Give me a sixty second compliment without repeating yourself.
  2. Recreate the first photo we ever took together.
  3. Slow dance with me to the next song that plays, whatever it is.
  4. Write me a three line love poem right now and read it out loud.
  5. Tell me five things you love about me while looking me in the eye.
  6. Make me a drink or a snack exactly the way I like it, without asking how.
  7. Give me a two minute hand massage.
  8. Find the oldest photo of us on your phone and tell me the story behind it.
  9. Draw a portrait of me in one minute and sign it like an artist.
  10. Plan our next date in under a minute and say it out loud.
  11. Hum the song you think of as our song until I guess it.
  12. Hug me for thirty seconds without letting go.
  13. Write a sweet note and hide it somewhere I will find it this week.
  14. Act out how you remember the moment we first met.
  15. Make a toast to us as if it were our wedding.
  16. Kiss my forehead, then my cheek, then my hand.
  17. Give me a brand new nickname and use it for the rest of the game.
  18. Set a photo of us as your phone wallpaper for a week.
  19. Tell the story of your favorite day with me as if you were telling it to a stranger.

Funny truth questions for couples

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  1. What is the weirdest thing you have caught me doing when I thought nobody was looking?
  2. What is the most embarrassing thing you have done to impress me?
  3. Which of my outfits do you secretly not like?
  4. What is the worst gift I have ever given you, and did you pretend to love it?
  5. What did you look up about me online before our first date?
  6. What is something I say all the time that you find funny?
  7. Who is the better cook, honestly?
  8. What is the most ridiculous argument we have ever had?
  9. What is the first thing you do when you have our place to yourself for a whole day?
  10. Which of my friends would you want on a desert island, purely for survival skills?
  11. What is my most annoying habit in the bathroom?
  12. If I were an animal, which one would I be, and why?
  13. What is a food I love that you secretly think is gross?
  14. What is the worst nickname you have ever considered for me?
  15. What is one thing about our first date you would delete if you could?
  16. Have you ever pretended to be asleep to get out of doing something?
  17. What is the most you have spent on something you hid from me?
  18. Who in this relationship is the bigger drama queen?
  19. Which of my dance moves would you ban forever?

Funny dares for couples

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  1. Do your best impression of me getting ready to go out.
  2. Speak only in a movie trailer voice until your next turn.
  3. Let me style your hair however I want, and keep it for the rest of the game.
  4. Sing me a love song where every word is "banana".
  5. Act out how I look when I am hungry.
  6. Wear one piece of my clothing for the rest of the night.
  7. Perform a dramatic soap opera breakup scene with the nearest pillow.
  8. Tell the story of how we met as a fairy tale.
  9. Take the least flattering selfie of us and set it as your lock screen for a day.
  10. Commentate like a sports announcer while I make a sandwich.
  11. Walk across the room like it is a fashion week runway.
  12. Make me laugh within thirty seconds without touching me.
  13. Do an impression of one of my parents meeting you for the first time.
  14. Eat a spoonful of a condiment I choose from the fridge.
  15. Read the last text you sent me in the most dramatic voice you can.
  16. Pretend to propose to me with a household object instead of a ring.
  17. Rap a short verse about our relationship.
  18. Hold a statue pose I choose until I count to twenty.
  19. Show me your best selfie face and your worst, back to back.

Flirty and spicy truth questions for couples (18+)

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For adult couples who both opted in. Suggestive, not explicit, and either of you can pass.

  1. What was the first thing you found attractive about me?
  2. When did you last think about kissing me when we were not together?
  3. Which outfit of mine do you like most on me?
  4. What is the most attractive thing I do without realizing it?
  5. Where is your favorite place to be kissed: in the rain, in the car or somewhere else?
  6. What is a fantasy date you have never told me about?
  7. When did you find me the most irresistible?
  8. What is the most daring place you would want to kiss me?
  9. What is one thing you wish I would do more often?
  10. Have you ever had a dream about me you would blush describing?
  11. What is something new you would like us to try together?
  12. Which text from me has made you blush the most?
  13. What is your favorite memory of us that is too spicy to tell our friends?
  14. Rate our first kiss from one to ten, honestly.
  15. Which song puts you in the mood?
  16. What do I wear that you secretly hope I wear more?
  17. When do you feel most confident and attractive?
  18. What would you want me to plan for the most romantic night in?
  19. What is the boldest thing you have wanted to do on a date with me but didn't?

Flirty and spicy dares for couples (18+)

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For adult couples who both opted in. Keep it playful, and either of you can pass.

  1. Whisper something you love about me in my ear.
  2. Kiss me like it is our first kiss.
  3. Slow dance with me with no music at all.
  4. Give me a two minute shoulder massage.
  5. Send me a flirty text while sitting right next to me.
  6. Describe our perfect night in without using the words kiss or bed.
  7. Give me your most seductive wink and hold eye contact for ten seconds.
  8. Feed me a strawberry or a piece of chocolate while I keep my eyes closed.
  9. Kiss me on the cheek, the hand or the neck, I choose which.
  10. Pick a song and dance just for me for thirty seconds.
  11. Hold my gaze for thirty seconds without laughing.
  12. Trace a word on my back with your finger and let me guess it.
  13. Give me the compliment you would normally be too shy to say.
  14. Put on the outfit you know I like most and model it for me.
  15. Use your best pickup line on me as if we just met at a bar.
  16. Kiss me for ten seconds, then go back to your seat like nothing happened.
  17. Choose a spot in the house for a secret kiss later tonight, and don't tell me where.
  18. Write a flirty message on a sticky note and put it somewhere only I will find it.
  19. Tell me, in one sentence, what you are looking forward to after this game.

Truth questions for couples over text or FaceTime

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  1. What is the first thing you will do when we see each other again?
  2. What time of day do you miss me the most?
  3. What have you kept or bought because it reminded you of me?
  4. What is the cutest thing I have texted you that you still remember?
  5. What do you miss about my place or my city?
  6. What is the longest you have stared at a photo of me?
  7. What do you do when you can't sleep and wish I was there?
  8. What is your favorite video call memory of us?
  9. Which emoji do you only ever use with me?
  10. What have you not said on the phone because you want to say it in person?
  11. What does our perfect first day together look like when we meet up?
  12. What is the hardest part of the distance for you?
  13. What could I send you in the mail that would make your week?
  14. What did you think the first time we said goodnight over the phone?
  15. Which screenshot of our chat are you keeping forever?
  16. What do you think I am doing right now?
  17. What about our future together are you counting down to?
  18. What do you miss more right now, my voice or my laugh?

Dares for couples over text or FaceTime

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  1. Send me a voice note singing the chorus of our song.
  2. Take a selfie right now, no retakes, and send it.
  3. Send me the tenth photo in your camera roll and explain it.
  4. Text me a love letter using only emojis, and I have to translate it.
  5. Send me a photo of your view right now and describe it like a poet.
  6. Change my contact name in your phone to something cute and send a screenshot.
  7. Pick a song for me to fall asleep to tonight and send it now.
  8. Record a ten second goodnight video in your best movie star voice.
  9. Write me a haiku about the last time we saw each other.
  10. Send me a voice note of your best impression of me.
  11. Make a five song playlist for our next road trip and send it.
  12. Stay on a video call for one minute without saying a word, only making faces.
  13. Send me a photo of something in your room that reminds you of me.
  14. Draw us as stick figures and send me the picture.
  15. Text me three things you want us to do the next time we meet.
  16. Send me a flirty selfie you would be happy for me to screenshot.
  17. Pick a movie for tonight and we both press play at the same second.
  18. Set an alarm for tomorrow morning, name it something sweet for me and send me the screenshot.

How to play truth or dare as a couple

With two people there is nowhere to hide, which is the fun of it. Agree on two things first: which themes are in, and what happens if someone passes.

  1. Choose your themesUse the chips on the card above. Sweet and Funny for a first round, Flirty and spicy only if you both want it, Long distance when you are apart.
  2. Take turns choosingThe player whose turn it is says truth or dare. Turn off the other kind of chip, draw a card and read it out.
  3. Answer or do itTruths are answered honestly. Dares happen right away. Passing is always allowed, and it costs a small agreed forfeit, like doing the dishes tomorrow.
  4. SwitchHand over the phone. Try to keep it even: three truths in a row and your next turn is a dare.
  5. End on a sweet cardFinish with one card from Sweet, whatever you played before. It is a nicer way to end the game than a spicy dare.
Which theme suits which kind of evening
ThemeMoodBest for
SweetWarm and cozyNew couples, anniversaries, a quiet night in
FunnySilly and lightCouples who like teasing each other
Flirty and spicy 18+Suggestive, never explicitAdult couples, date night at home
Long distancePlayful and personalText, phone calls, FaceTime

Want the cards drawn for you?

Dronk's Truth or Dare mode has 75 truths and 75 dares in three packs, The Classics, Daring and Spicy. Tap truth or dare, the phone draws the card, and you can always say no and take the penalty instead.

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Ground rules that keep it fun

Truth or dare for couples is a trust game. These four rules keep it that way.

  • No exes, no comparisons. Truths about the two of you are fun. Truths that compare your partner to someone else are not.
  • What is said in the game stays in the game. Nothing from a truth gets brought up in the next argument.
  • Spicy is a joint decision. Both of you say yes before those chips go on, and either can switch them off at any time.
  • Over text, nothing gets shared. Photos and voice notes from the game stay between the two of you.

Need more dares? Our page of dares for truth or dare has 150 harmless ones for groups. For a slower evening, try would you rather questions for couples.

Questions people ask

What are good truth or dare questions for couples?

Questions about your own story work best: what you thought of each other on the first date, which outfit your partner loves, which song is yours. This page has 75 truths and 75 dares in four themes, from sweet to flirty.

What are spicy truth or dare questions for couples?

The Flirty and spicy groups have 19 truths and 19 dares for adult couples, like kissing as if it were your first kiss or naming the outfit you love most. They are suggestive, never explicit, and passing is always fine.

How do you play truth or dare over text?

Take turns sending "truth or dare?". The other person picks, you send a card from the Long distance groups, and they reply with an answer, a photo or a voice note. It also works on a phone call or FaceTime.

Can married couples play truth or dare?

Yes, and the Sweet and Funny truths are often better after years together, because you think you already know the answers.

How do you make truth or dare romantic?

Play only Sweet truths and dares, put on a playlist, and end every turn with one compliment. It turns the game into a date night.

What if one of us doesn't want to do a dare?

Pass. Agree on a small forfeit before you start, like making breakfast tomorrow. The game is only fun if both of you feel safe saying no.

Keep the night going

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